The Rise of Solo Travel and the Reasons You Should Try It
When you get off a plane with your backpack draped over your shoulder and
realize you've reached a new place and are entirely alone, there's a subtly
potent feeling.
Solo travel has grown from a specialized activity to a worldwide trend in
recent years. More people than ever before are traveling alone, packing
light, and purchasing one-way tickets. However, why? Why does traveling alone
have such a profound impact on so many people?
Let's explore the enchantment underlying this expanding trend.
Why did I choose to Solo Travel?
I never expected to travel alone. But there were places
calling to me, places I had dreamed about for years and no one else in my life
shared that same pull. Between mismatched schedules, tight budgets, and
different priorities, it became clear that if I wanted to go, I’d have to go
alone.
After landing my first job, I felt this deep need to do
something for myself. Something that marked a new chapter. I finally had the
time, the freedom, and just enough courage to take that leap. So, I booked the
ticket not just as a getaway, but as a gift to myself. A way of saying, you’ve
earned this.
How did I choose my first trip location?
England, Ireland, and Scotland had always held a special
place on my travel bucket list. Their proximity made it easy to visit all three
in a single trip, and as English-speaking, culturally rich, and relatively safe
countries, they felt like an ideal choice for a first-time solo traveler.
Compared to other dream destinations of mine like Japan,
Thailand, or Vietnam—these countries were much closer to the U.S., which meant
less time battling jet lag and more time exploring. With only a limited number
of PTO hours to work with, every minute of the trip needed to count.
In the months leading up to booking, I found myself
constantly coming across TikTok showcasing these beautiful places, especially
Edinburgh, dressed in twinkling lights and festive charm during the holiday
season. That was the final push I needed. I wanted to see it all for myself.
I mapped out an 8-day itinerary that balanced adventure with
ease: two days in London to kick things off, three days in Edinburgh to soak in
the holiday spirit, and two final days in Dublin to round out the experience.
It felt like the perfect blend of history, culture, and magic, just enough time
in each city to fall in love with it.
What did I learn about myself during this trip?
One of the biggest things I discovered during my first solo
trip was just how independent and capable I really am. Successfully planning
and navigating the entire journey on my own gave me a real boost in confidence,
especially in my organizational skills. Since then, I’ve even taken on the role
of trip planner for my family, something I never imagined doing before.
Traveling alone gave me the space to tune into myself, to
notice what I genuinely enjoy, what I don't, and how I prefer to experience new
places. Without having to accommodate anyone else's preferences, I found a
rhythm that felt natural and fulfilling.
It also made me much more aware of the many moving parts
that go into travel. From packing smarter to planning more intentionally, I’ve
become far more mindful and detail oriented. Now, every trip feels smoother,
more efficient, and more aligned with what brings me joy.
Something that stood out to me during this trip was how
often I found myself as the only person of color in the spaces I occupied.
Whether I was flying business class, staying at luxury hotels, or taking part
in high-end excursions, I could sense the curiosity and surprise from
concierges, conductors, fellow travelers, and cab drivers. It was a mix of
pride and discomfort.
On one hand, I felt empowered, I was the first woman in my
family with the financial freedom to access these experiences, and that made me
feel confident and accomplished. On the other hand, it was unsettling to
realize how rare it still is to see young people of color in these elite spaces.
That’s why I believe it’s so important for more young people
of color to travel solo and explore the world. Our presence needs to be
normalized in places where we’ve historically been excluded, not just for
ourselves, but for those who come after us.
How did I plan/prepare for my trip?
When it came to planning my trip, I wanted something that
felt both safe and well-organized—especially since it was my first time
traveling solo. My parents had previously booked trips through Costco Travel,
and we’d had great experiences with their hotel options, excursions, and
airport transfers. That gave me the confidence to use the same platform for my
own trip.
I booked a travel package that included round-trip flights,
a train ride, hotel stays, excursions, and complimentary airport shuttles. I
chose 4-star hotels in each city to ensure a comfortable and secure stay and
added two excursions while in London: the Warner Bros, a guided city bus tour
that offered a traditional high tea onboard, something I had always wanted to
experience.
For the journey from London to Edinburgh, I opted for a
business-class train ticket. I wanted the peace of mind that came with added
comfort and safety during the longer travel day.
I also took a few practical steps to prepare: I notified my
credit card company about my international travel to avoid any payment issues,
and I purchased an international phone plan so I could stay connected. While I
didn’t carry any self-defense tools, I made sure my phone’s location sharing
was always on, so my family could track my whereabouts throughout the trip.
Why will I continue to solo travel?
Solo travel brings me a sense of tranquility and peace that
I rarely find elsewhere—and that’s what keeps drawing me back to it. There’s
something incredibly empowering about planning a trip entirely around my own
interests and preferences. From the places I visit to the pace I move at, every
detail is my own decision, and that freedom is both exhilarating and deeply
fulfilling.
Of course, traveling with friends and family has its own
joys like shared laughter, built-in companionship, the comfort of safety, and
memories created together. But traveling alone, especially as a woman, offers
something different. It grants you a powerful sense of agency. You begin to
trust yourself more, listen to your instincts, and move through the world with newfound
confidence. It’s not just about seeing new places—it’s about reconnecting with
yourself along the way.
I think the
main reason why I will continue to solo travel is that it has helped me improve
my mental
health. At times when life feels monotonous and maybe even bleak, travel
gives you a
fresh perspective and pushes you outside of your comfort zone. This builds
inner strength,
perseverance, and self-trust. After all these years, I find or remember a
piece of myself
that I never knew existed or had forgotten every time I travel by myself. I
realize that
there is so much yet to discover, both externally and internally.
Reflections from the Author:
So why is solo travel so popular?
Solo travel provides a subtle sense of independence that creeps into your bones
the instant you realize you're the only one choosing the pace. No compromises.
No need to coordinate with anyone else. Only you, your instincts, and a
universe waiting to be discovered. Waking up when you want, staying in places
that move you, changing plans on a whim—it's a kind of liberation that's hard
to achieve in regular life, and even more difficult to imitate when traveling
with others.
But solo travel is more than just where you go; it's also about what you
discover along the way. Without anyone else's opinions in the background, you
can hear your own thoughts more clearly. You begin to ask yourself deeper
questions, such as, "What do I really enjoy?" What turns me on? Where
do I feel the most alive? In the quiet moments—on trains, in cafés, while
walking around strange streets, you discover aspects of yourself you have never
encountered before. Traveling alone becomes a gradual blossoming, a lovely
lesson in self-discovery.
And somewhere in between arranging your own tickets,
navigating public transportation in a different nation, and deciding what to
eat for dinner in a new city, you begin to realize how capable you are. Each
modest win contributes to something bigger, a quiet confidence that lingers
long after the journey is complete. Solo travel, particularly for women, may
be a transformative experience. It's more than just freedom; it's about
regaining your place in the world.
You understand that traveling alone does not imply being alone, especially
when the globe is full of friendly strangers and kindred souls.
Surprisingly, traveling alone frequently allows you to connect more profoundly
with people, places, and oneself. You are more open when you are not with
someone familiar. You initiate conversations, share meals, listen more, and see
others more clearly. You're not simply taking images; you're living the story.
And for many others, solitary travel occurs amid a period of
transition. A breakup. A career change. A desire for change. There's something
immensely restorative about getting out of your usual routine, watching the sun
set over a new skyline, and breathing in air that isn't associated with
recollection. In those moments, you are reminded of how wide the universe
is—and how abundant second chances can be.
Solo travel teaches you that calm can be found in your
own company, that adventure begins when you choose to be yourself, and that the
most beautiful adventures often begin from within.
Solo travel Tips
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Research your destination’s culture, safety, and logistics beforehand.
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Pack light and bring only essentials.
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Choose safe, well-reviewed accommodation.
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Keep digital and physical copies of important documents.
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Stay connected with a local SIM or international phone plan.
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Trust your instincts and avoid uncomfortable situations.
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Dress respectfully to blend in with local customs.
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Plan your trip but stay flexible for surprises.
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Use reputable transportation options only.
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Share your itinerary or check in regularly with someone you trust.
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Carry emergency cash and important contact numbers
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